There’s a male fitness coach going viral right now for his 3 AM/4 AM morning routine. Some are calling it unnecessary. Others are calling it performance. Some say, “He’s just doing it for views,” while others are inspired by the discipline. But it made me stop and ask myself: Are these the habits of a high-performing, career-driven adult?


And if not exactly that, then what is?


I ask because once upon a time—back in high school—I was incredibly organized. I had a planner. I would write out my after-school routine by the hour. My mom used to be so impressed with how structured I was. It gave me a sense of control, clarity, and direction.


But somewhere along the way, I drifted. Life got busy. Now, most days I operate off of a mental planner, which sounds functional… until it’s not. I’ll have 12 things floating in my brain and then wonder why I feel mentally exhausted. Lately I’ve been thinking, Is it time to get back to the physical planner? Or even use my digital calendar with alerts to gently nudge me back into rhythm?


What does high-performance look like when you’re not just managing tasks—but managing identities?


For those of you who don’t know, I wear several hats:
• I’m a licensed realtor.
• A licensed independent travel advisor.
• The daughter of a guru book publisher and a guru trucking entrepreneur.
• A big sister. A granddaughter. A mentor. A friend.


I’m proud of all the roles I play. I see myself as someone who can do it all—but lately, I’ve been asking, Can I do it all well? And what does “well” even mean to me now?


Is it meal prepping on Sundays and laying out my outfits for the week?
Is it drinking water, staying moisturized, and scheduling therapy like I schedule meetings?
Is it finding a church home? Saying no more often? Prioritizing a weekly FaceTime with my grandma?


Does “high-performing” have to mean hyper-productive? Or can it mean emotionally available? Spiritually grounded? Physically nourished?


I’ve started building out a weekly to-do list again—nothing fancy, just small, consistent wins. And I have to admit, checking off each item gives me a mini sense of accomplishment. But still, I wonder: Is structure the secret to freedom? Or does too much planning box us in?


Being on the cusp of 30 is such a weird and beautiful space. It feels like a bridge between who I thought I would be and who I still have time to become. I want to use this time wisely—but what does “wise” even look like now? Is it in the hustle? Or is it in the rest?


And so, I ask the question again: What are the habits of high-performing adults?


Is it waking up at 3 AM to train, or is it giving yourself grace when you sleep in?
Is it hitting career goals, or is it calling your siblings back and making space for joy?


I don’t have all the answers—but maybe that’s the point. Maybe the power isn’t in having it all figured out, but in asking the right questions, and building a life that feels aligned with the answers we uncover along the way.
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Recently, I found myself watching The Cheetah Girls as an adult, and it brought back a flood of memories and emotions that I hadn’t tapped into in years. The child version of me absolutely adored the Cheetah Girls. Some of my fondest memories are from the times I spent at my late grandma’s house, dancing and singing with my cousins. We would debate who got to sing which part and who would be which Cheetah Girl. Those moments were pure magic—carefree, joyful, and filled with a sense of empowerment that only The Cheetah Girls could bring.
The Cheetah Girls were more than just a fictional girl group to us. They represented strength, sisterhood, and the idea that you could be fierce, fabulous, and unstoppable no matter where you came from. They were such good role models for young girls, showing us that we didn’t have to fit into any mold to be powerful. Each Cheetah Girl was unique, with her own style, dreams, and personality, yet they all came together to support one another and chase their goals. They taught us the importance of friendship, believing in ourselves, and standing up for what we love.
The Cheetah Girls showed us that being a Cheetah Girl wasn’t about the clothes you wore or the way you looked; it was about what was in your heart. “You're a cheetah girl because of who you are, and what's in your heart... And you're a pure Cheetah Girl, por la vida.” These words were more than just a line from the movie—they were a mantra that reminded us to stay true to ourselves and to the bond we shared as friends and family.
But as I grew older, I found myself distancing from the cheetah print and all it represented. It seemed like a relic of my childhood, something I needed to leave behind as I navigated the complexities of adulthood. I forgot what it meant to be a Cheetah Girl, to embrace that spirit of being the fastest and fiercest feline in the jungle. In the hustle and bustle of adult life, I lost touch with the girl who danced without a care in the world, who believed she could conquer anything with a little bit of sparkle and a whole lot of heart.
Watching The Cheetah Girls again, I realized how much I missed that version of myself—the one who didn’t wait around for anyone to rescue her. The song “Cinderella” was such a powerful anthem back then, and its message resonates even more with me now:

"I Don't wanna be like Cinderella
Sitting in a dark, cold, dusty cellar (oh, no, ooh)
Waiting for somebody to come and set me free (come and set me free)
I don't wanna be like someone waiting (oh no)
For a handsome prince to come and save me
On, I will survive, I know somebody's on my side
Don't wanna depend on no one else
I'd rather rescue myself."

These lyrics remind me of the strength I’ve always had within me. I don’t need to wait for someone else to save me; I have the power to rescue myself, to take charge of my own destiny. The Cheetah Girls taught us that we don’t have to wait for life to happen to us—we have the power to make our dreams come true, to stand strong in who we are, and to support one another along the way.

As I reflect on where I am now, I realize that I want to get back to that girl who believed she could do anything. I want to reconnect with the most authentic version of myself—the Cheetah Girl who is fierce, unstoppable, and unapologetically herself. It’s time to reclaim that cheetah print, to wear it proudly, not just as a fashion statement, but as a symbol of everything it means to be a Cheetah Girl.
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So, here’s to rediscovering that inner Cheetah Girl, to embracing the strength, the spirit, and the sisterhood that The Cheetah Girls stood for. And here’s to never forgetting that we’re all pure Cheetah Girls, por la vida.

My latest travel adventure took me from the wild streets of New Orleans to the bright lights of Las Vegas, and it was a whirlwind of work, play, and everything in between. This journey was not just about visiting two iconic cities; But a note to self that you should play as hard as you work. I kicked off my trip in New Orleans, where I had the privilege of working as a personal assistant to one of my six-figure CEO clients. In my masterclass, I teach how to attract six-figure clients, and this trip was a perfect example of how you can still enjoy yourself while meeting the demands of high-powered business owner while having fun. After the work was done, I made my way to the famous Bourbon Street. Bourbon Street was lined with people dancing, having fun, and sipping on frozen daiquiris. The street was alive with music, laughter, and the kind of vibrant atmosphere that New Orleans is known for.

When it comes to packing for two trips in one, Southwest Airlines is my go-to travel partner. Their open seating plan offers flexibility, but the real game-changer is their generous baggage policy. With Southwest, you get two checked bags, a carry-on item, and a personal item—perfect for when you need to pack for multiple destinations. Using two large suitcases to organize and separate my clothes and essentials by trip allowed me to separate my outfits, accessories, and essentials into different suitcases, making it easy to transition from the busy streets of New Orleans to the bright lights of Las Vegas.

One of the best ways to stay fresh and ready during back-to-back trips is by booking a hotel with laundry facilities. I always pack travel-sized laundry detergent and fabric softener, so I can wash my clothes between trips. Doing laundry at the end of each trip means I come home with clean clothes, ready to be packed away for the next adventure. This is a game-changer for frequent travelers like me who want to keep their travel items organized and ready to go.

After my weekend in New Orleans, I flew straight to Las Vegas without stopping home. Las Vegas was the second wing to my trip, and it didn’t disappoint. Las Vegas was full of highlights, but the Bellagio stood out as an experience I’ll never forget. The Bellagio’s Botanical Garden and Conservatory was so beautiful that it brought tears to my eyes.

I was completely swept away by the "Higher Love" exhibit. Picture colorful hot-air balloons floating through the air, surrounded by vibrant florals—it was like stepping into a romantic dream. The whole display, inspired by European nostalgia and timeless love, really hit home for me. As a hopeless romantic who's always daydreaming about my wedding and the idea of love, this exhibit had me in tears. I could feel every bit of love and beauty they were trying to capture. If you’re anything like me, you’ll absolutely love it. I highly recommend checking it out before it ends on September 7th. I’ve been to Vegas countless times, and I’ve literally never been to the Bellagio. The beauty of the Bellagio alone made me want to book my next stay in Vegas as a guest in the Bellagio suites.

The real fun and real winnings in Vegas are in Old Vegas. Once you leave the strip and travel out to old Vegas it’s a completely different vibe. Freemont streets sits under a dome like structure covered with images projected and people ziplining above you. There are still hotels and bars on the streets and of course the casinos. A little-known secret is that everyone knows those slots pay out more in old Vegas.  Ans I was able to witness people hitting jackpots on their slot machines.
 
During this particular trip to Vegas, we rented a car, and we drove out to Bulgogi’s Gourmet hotdogs per the recommendation of Tik Tok food Vlogger Keith Lee.  We were greeted very warmly by the cashier who took out order and sat our party of 10 in this local restaurant. I went into this knowing the glowing reviews they had received but nothing could have prepared us for the delicious goodness that was Buldogi’s. my Group tried several of the breakfast sandwiches from their egg drop menu. I personally tried their Korean fried chicken sandwich the chicken was juicy fresh perfectly breaded and sauced. Their home made Korean slaw made the sandwich so refreshing and delicious.
 
The food was so great we came back the next day for round two where I tried a bulgogi hot dog…. The all-beef hot dog topped with tender juicy marinated beef bulgogi hit the spot. I kept telling my waiter “I can’t believe y’all made this” so if you’re ever in Vegas and you want to get away from all the Hussle and bustle and try a local favorite I highly recommend Buldogi’s. the service was exceptional. The team was very attentive and interactive and the food was 10/10 my family kept saying they had never tasted anything like this it wasn’t mass produced, it was made with love and made to order.
 
While in Vegas I was able to visit my local Keller Willams Office. I find myself truly blessed to use my travel benefits to travel all over the world selling Real Estate connecting with my referral partners and helping my Real Estate clients relocate all across the globe. I always wondered how I could tie in being a travel agent and realtor, but it all works together.
 
I found myself just sitting back and taking it all in. I don’t take for granted how I get to travel and sell Real Estate as my lifestyle. This truly makes me happy. This is truly what I want to do.

There’s something extraordinary about the number 8:28 for me. It’s more than just a date—it’s a divine connection, a gentle reminder from God that my life is unfolding exactly as it should, according to His purpose. You see, I was born on August 28th, and as I’ve journeyed through life, Romans 8:28 has become a guiding scripture for me: “And we know that in all things God works for the good of those who love him, who have been called according to his purpose.”
This verse has woven itself into the fabric of my life in the most remarkable ways. I can’t even count how many times I’ve glanced at a clock and seen 8:28 staring back at me, or when I’ve been out shopping, and the total comes to $8.28. It’s as if God is gently nudging me, reminding me that I’m on the right path, that everything is unfolding according to His perfect plan.

One day, while scrolling through my Bible app, I came across a devotional plan titled "8:28." Of course, I had to click it—I knew it was meant for me. What I didn’t realize was how transformative that devotional would be. It wasn’t just a daily reading; it was a life-changing experience that I’ve revisited time and time again.

There’s a certain calmness that washes over me when I reflect on Romans 8:28. It’s a peace that comes from knowing that all things—every joy, every challenge, every unexpected twist—are working together for good. My steps are already ordered by God, and He knows exactly what I will do long before I do it. This knowledge has given me a profound sense of calm, a reassurance that I don’t have to worry about what’s ahead. It’s all 8:28.

As I turn 29 and embrace the final year of my 20s, I’m filled with both excitement and reflection. This past decade has been a journey of growth, discovery, and self-acceptance. I’ve learned so much about who I am and what I’m called to do. I’ve faced challenges that have tested my faith, but I’ve also experienced incredible blessings that have affirmed God’s purpose for my life.

The upcoming year feels like a beautiful culmination of everything I’ve experienced so far. It’s a time to fully embrace who I’ve become while remaining open to the new lessons and adventures that await. I’m stepping into this year with a heart full of gratitude, knowing that God’s 8:28 promise continues to guide me.
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This year, I’m focusing on living with intention, cherishing the moments that matter most, and continuing to trust that God’s plan for me is greater than anything I could imagine. I’m ready to walk confidently into the future, knowing that everything is working together for good. This is my 8:28 journey, and as I turn 29, I’m embracing it wholeheartedly, with faith, hope, and an unwavering trust in God’s plan.

As a seasoned traveler and digital nomad, I've curated a list of travel essentials that make every trip more convenient, safe, and enjoyable.Whether you're heading out for a weekend getaway or a month-long adventure, these items are game-changers.I've put together a full list of travel must haves on my storefront but, Here are my top picks:

1. Wireless Three-in-One Charger:One of the most annoying parts of traveling is dealing with multiple chargers for all your devices. The wireless three-in-one charger is a lifesaver. It allows you to charge your phone, Apple Watch, and AirPods simultaneously and wirelessly. This device saves space in your luggage, reduces clutter, and is super convenient. No more tangled cords and searching for multiple outlets! 
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2. Portable Door Lock: Safety should always be a priority when traveling. A portable door lock is an excellent tool for added security in your hotel room, Airbnb, or any other accommodation. It's easy to install and provides an extra layer of protection, giving you peace of mind while you sleep or when you're out exploring.

3. Packing Cubes: Organization is key when it comes to packing. Packing cubes help you keep your clothes and accessories neatly organized in your suitcase. They make it easy to find what you need without digging through your entire bag. Plus, they compress your clothes, allowing you to fit more into your luggage.

4. Reusable Water Bottle:Staying hydrated while traveling is crucial, and having a reusable water bottle helps you do that sustainably. Many airports, hotels, and tourist spots have water refill stations, so you can save money and reduce plastic waste by carrying your own bottle.

5. Noise-Cancelling Headphones:Long flights, noisy hotel rooms, or busy coffee shops – noise-cancelling headphones are a must for any traveler. They block out unwanted noise, allowing you to relax, work, or enjoy your music and podcasts without distraction.

6. Travel-Sized Toiletries:Always keep a set of travel-sized toiletries in your bag. These are not only convenient but also compliant with airport security regulations. Opt for refillable containers to reduce waste and save money.

7. Universal Travel Adapter:Different countries have different types of electrical outlets, and a universal travel adapter ensures you can plug in and charge your devices wherever you are. Look for one with multiple USB ports for added convenience.When i went to dubai i had purchased the wrong country's adapter. Having an adapter which features every country's adapter will be most beneficial to me and you in the future.

8. Portable Power Bank:Running out of battery while on the go can be a nightmare, especially if you're relying on your phone for maps, bookings, and communication. A portable power bank ensures you always have a backup charge available. My phone died in Key West. I Was so thankful my dad had a portable charger.Having my own is a must for my upcoming trip.

9. Travel Pillow and Blanket:Comfort is key during long flights or bus rides. A good travel pillow and a compact, cozy blanket can make all the difference, helping you arrive at your destination well-rested and ready to explore.Plus its always freezing on the airplane.

10. First Aid Kit:It's always better to be prepared. A small first aid kit with essentials like band-aids, antiseptic wipes, pain relievers, and any personal medications can be incredibly handy in case of minor injuries or illnesses.When i was in dubai my feet kept gettign cut up, it was a struggle to find a simple bandaid. Having my own little first aid kit would have been a game-changer.
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These travel must-haves are designed to make your journeys smoother, safer, and more enjoyable. Investing in these items will enhance your travel experience, allowing you to focus on creating unforgettable memories.

Have y’all ever heard of digital Nomads?
 
The term "digital nomad" originated from the combination of "digital" referring to the use of technology and "nomad" indicating a lifestyle of constant movement and exploration. Digital nomads typically work in fields that allow for remote work, such as freelance writing, web development, graphic design, consulting, digital marketing, and online entrepreneurship. Imagine someone you see on social media constantly traveling, seems their money never runs out and you have no idea what they do.
 
This morning, I asked my TikTok Audience this question:
If you had a lucrative travel business and you could work from anywhere in the world as long as you had Wi-Fi, where would you work from?
 
My personal answer to this is Why limit yourself?
 
As the heir to a successful and lucrative publishing company, Sophisticated Press, I have had the privilege of witnessing firsthand the pioneering spirit and global impact of my mother's visionary work. Early on, she brought me into the fold, allowing me to immerse myself in the inner workings of the publishing industry and witness the unparalleled level of service she provided to clients around the world.

Sophisticated Press isn't just a publishing company—it's a testament to my mother's dedication, expertise, and relentless pursuit of excellence. Serving high-level executives and celebrities, most of whom are located far beyond the confines of Chicago, she has truly become a digital nomad in her own right, leveraging technology to transcend geographical boundaries and deliver exceptional results to her discerning clientele.
 
So let me set the stage by saying that everything I learned and everything I do was first seen done by my mother.


Here’s how I am making the digital Nomad Lifestyle work for me As a passionate entrepreneur, I've always believed in the power of freedom and flexibility when it comes to shaping both my career and my lifestyle. Through my real estate business and travel agency, I've found a way to not only sustain myself financially but also to thrive in a lifestyle that allows me to work from anywhere, travel often, and truly enjoy life to the fullest.
 
Real Estate Entrepreneurship: Building Wealth and Creating Opportunities
My journey as a digital nomad began with my real estate business. By leveraging technology and embracing remote work practices, I've been able to manage my real estate investments and transactions from anywhere in the world. Whether I'm scouting properties, negotiating deals, or managing client relationships, the flexibility of my real estate business allows me to stay connected and productive no matter where my travels take me.

Travel Agency Ventures: Curating Experiences and Inspiring Wanderlust
But why stop at real estate when there's a whole world waiting to be explored? That's where my travel agency comes in. Through my agency, I've been able to channel my passion for travel into a thriving business, helping others discover the joys of exploration and adventure. From crafting bespoke itineraries to sharing insider tips and recommendations, my travel agency allows me to inspire wanderlust and create unforgettable experiences for my clients—all while living out my own travel dreams.

Freedom and Flexibility: Embracing the Nomadic Lifestyle
What I love most about being a digital nomad is the freedom and flexibility it affords me. Whether I'm working from a bustling cafe in Barcelona, a serene beach in Bali, or a cozy cabin in the mountains, I have the autonomy to design my ideal workspace and schedule. This level of flexibility not only enhances my productivity and creativity but also allows me to fully immerse myself in the destinations I visit, experiencing new cultures, cuisines, and adventures along the way.

Embracing Life to the Fullest: Balancing Work and Play
But it's not all about work. One of the greatest joys of the digital nomad lifestyle is the ability to prioritize experiences and enjoyment. Whether it's navigating the vibrant souks of Dubai, immersing myself in the bustling night bazaars of New Zealand alongside my best friend Chris, or indulging in the tranquil beauty of California's vineyards with my aunt Kim, each adventure reminds me of life's exquisite richness. By harmonizing my professional pursuits with these enriching experiences, I've crafted a life that resonates with both financial success and profound personal fulfillment.

You can do the same thing as me and break free from the rat race and live your life on your own terms. I want to build a team of likeminded individuals who want to travel abroad far and wide while earning income. Take this short one minute survey and ask your self how being a travel agent can benefit you?
 
I look forward to your answers and I will be in contact soon.
 
 
 

I noticed that lately and for the past few years I have been saying I don’t feel like it, it can be the most simple or most complex task and I just won’t do it because I didn’t like it. I recognize this was hurting me more than it was helping me. I’ve canceled on all of my friends in the name of self-care or being a homebody but I am now realizing I was actually self-sabotaging. Often times I would show up just to support the people I love and I realized that I was actually enjoying myself. So why was I so determined to stay home when I knew that I would have fun if I went out. Most days If I don't work or go to school I will stay home all day and say something like “ I Love being home," but this can't be good for me? I noticed that I am very lazy, I want to have an easy-going as possible life, I like to go with the flow. But sometimes things need planning. When I think of theperson and thewoman I want to be she isn’t lazy. She gets her stuff done, she is very productive and proactive. So now that I know that what I am doing is not good for me how do I get over I don't feel like it?


Do it anyway.
 The things that you are putting off because you don't feel like still need to be done sooner or later, you only waste your time by continuously putting it off. When I was younger I use to schedule out my day and I was the most productive I ever been. I want to get back to my scheduled days. When you make a schedule you can schedule downtime as well as time to do the things you don't feel like doing. When you make a schedule you are motivated to stay on track with the schedule.

Go for a short amount of time
If there is a place or social gathering you are nervous about attending or just don't feel like it, make a plan to go and stay for a short period of time. Plan to take a couple of pics, and have an escape plan. The cool thing about this is no one ever has to know the true reason why you're leaving, you can make up an excuse of having another party, or just say bye to people and leave without explanation. Do what feels best for you.

Small breaks
If there is a big task you have to do such as cleaning or studying you can always try the Pomodoro technique which is where you do the task for 25 minutes then take a five-minute break. You repeat this 4 times then you can take a 15-30 minute break. This technique is proven to be effective. Over 2 million people have already used the Pomodoro® Technique to transform their lives, making them more productive, more focused, and even smarter. If you often find you can't focus on a task for long without getting bored Pomodoro might be perfect for you.

Reward yourself
 For everything, you do that you don't feel like it, reward yourself. The reward can be anything from a break to food, to a gift for yourself but motivate yourself and reward yourself. Tel yourself if I finish this then I can have …XYZ use that as your motivation to get over I don't feel like it.


I hope this post finds you well and helps you on your journey of self-betterment. It is my goal to encourage my readers and do so by using my own personal experiences, I am transparent with my readers, Which means you are getting the real me 100% of the time. I have no problem telling people that struggle with laziness and procrastination for a lack of better words. That being said I want us all to readjust our focus together. Envision the person you want to be the type of life you want to live. Evaluate the way you are living now and see how it measures up. Make any and all necessary changes. If this post gave you new tips let me know, otherwise share in the comments effective techniques you have used to help get over the “I don't feel like it”.
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We all know I’m no fashion guru or fashion blogger at all, however a fashion edit is something I have been wanting to do for a really long time.With that being said I wanted to share some of my favorite fall looks. Fall is one of my favorite times of year and I’m really excited about it. The weather is getting cooler so you can start to layer up and mix patterns. Speaking of patterns I noticed a few in particular that were standing out.

Plaids were sticking out in recent trends as well as yellow. When I think of plaid I automatically think of school uniforms.I wanted to go for a edgy, punk school look with this first set ! I included two pair of shoes to give more style options. The perfect layering piece for these outfits are cute vest and blazers.

Camo was another trend that seeemed to come back in a major way, with my camo set I wanted to go for a more street style look. I included two pairs of sneakers for each outfit to give more style options. When I think camo I think Street style which is a huge trend in the past few years so I kept this look very street style without any boot options. I added an additional street style look that mixes boots and sweaters which are some fall essentials !

Once fall rolls around i know most people think boots , sweaters , scarfs and pumpkin spice everything. Those looks are what I call basics or classics . i wanted to show off my fav basic fall fashion looks while still taking color risk and incorporating sprints and patterns. This final set is very retro chic in my opinion and the perfect pairing item are tights!

That concludes my first ever fashion edit, I would hope that this inspires you all to take risk and step out of your usual comfort zones to try something new. Mix and match patterns this season and have fun with it! I gave examples and used specific items but I would encourage you all to make them your own, Add your own personal flare to them! If this was something you would like to see more of let me know below in the comments! I also want to play around with a skin care edit and health edit in the future , anything can happen.

Dating at the Dcp
When you’re young you watch Disney movies and you wish to one day grow up and have a love like the kind you see in those movies. In my mind the DCP was an opportunity for me to start a whole new world and maybe find my prince charming. I was tryna be on some real-life Troy and Gabriella type ish but after strong deliberation I have concluded to Never fall in love at the dcp. For those of you who don’t know what the Dcp is, it’s the Disney college program in Orlando Florida. It’s an opportunity to live and work at Walt Disney World Resort in Orlando Florida. One of my biggest rules are never fall in love at the Dcp and I’m going to tell you why.
No one is ever in a relationship at the Dcp the reality of it all is that we’re all a bunch of college age kids living on our own around a lot of attractive people. No seriously everyone is attractive. I’ve seen people come to the Dcp in 3+ yearlong relationships and those relationships end because of meeting someone new at the Dcp. Whether these relationships last or not is really up to the people involved but there are so many factors that contribute to it .There are many ways to meet people on the Dcp you meet people in the parks , on the face book pages , in the dorms , at the clubs and once you realize you’re both on the Dcp you may have found your one .
Me and Cali came up with a theory one night to test in the Dcp singles pages. The singles pages are Facebooks pages were single cps meet each other. The theory was that if we posted the quote “when will my prince come?” single Dcp boys will friend request and DM us. So, I posted it and it worked I was chatting up this cute guy for weeks before I arrived at the Dcp. Things were going so well until I arrived to Dcp we hung out once and then he got termed and banned from Disney property and relationship over!
Another way to meet on the Dcp is hanging around the Italy pavilion. A lot of the single girls would hang around the Italy pavilion trying to catch the attention of the boys working there this slightly worked for me I’ll tell you how. I worked at Epcot, so I would always see this cute Italian boy on the bus! He lived in the commons I lived in vista way. He would never say anything, and I didn’t either. The night of winter formal we saw each other, and we danced ‘like all night! we hangout the next day and then I found out about all the other girls he was hanging out with through a mutual friend who is now one of my closest friends.
I met a cutie at Hollywood’s studios he was from my city and we had mutual friends! We texted for a while until We hung out at the vista way tennis courts and then after that he found out his dorm Had bed bugs. So, I was like peace out boy scout! Fall 2015 Dcp everyone had bedbugs I was not trying to get those. I have so many more scenarios like these but moral of the story none of my Dcp relationships worked and I think that it was partly because of the environment. there are so many interesting people all around you, you may not want to settle down with one person while you could be out there living your best life.
On the contrary let’s say you fall in love at the Dcp, your program comes to an end. now you must decide if the two of you are going to extend or does one have to go back to finish school. The question comes up on do you want to live with each other in your retrospective cities or do you want to move to Orlando. studies show that long distance relationships don’t work. So, unless you are 100 percent willing to drop everything you’re doing in life for someone you met on your Disney College Program I’m sticking with my statement of never fall in love at the dcp.

I have been diagnosed with PDD or Post Disney Depression. It’s that aching feeling in your heart after your Disney vacation is over and you have to go back to reality. For me it’s 10 times worse because I had the pleasure of completing a Disney College Program where I worked and lived at Walt Disney World for 6 months straight. Working there was as amazing as it seems I had the opportunity to work in the parks everyday and enjoy the parks as a guest on my offdays. I have to be honest I have no idea what to do with myself now that my program is over. The weather is below zero degrees here, I’m snowed in and l want nothing more than to visit the parks. Life after Disney is so weird because I’m use to walking outside and knowing it’s hot,knowing I can go to whatever park I want to visit today. I miss earl of sandwich, and I desperately want a mickey ice cream sandwich .Post Disney depression can hit you hard and unexpectedly, but In this post I will list some of the things I do to cure my Post Disney Depression !

Listening to Disney playlist !
No matter what music platform you use Spotify , Apple Music, or TIDAL there are going to be Disney playlist ! You obviously love Disney movies so listening to the soundtracks from some of our favorite movies would definitely ease up on some of the pressure.
Listening to the music from the parks.
On my first Disney College Program I worked in Epcot and I fell in love with the soundtrack ! I found myself missing it at home so I found the soundtrack on YouTube ! I will provide the link to that video here . If you ever find yourself missing your parks soundtrack you can always find it on YouTube .
Hanging your mickey ears on your wall .
After your program or vacation you will have a ton of mickey ears you have accumulated over time. These Mickey Ears can make some really cute wall art and remind you of your time at the happiest place on earth.
Wearing Disney merch!
Wearing Disney merch is such a good conversation starter wearing it will have people asking questions and you get to talk about the thing you love the most , which is Disney!
Having a Disney lock screen.
The item I use most in my everyday life is my phone and every time I look at my phone I see my lock screen which is the castle ! It keeps the memory of the castle close in my mind !
Planning a Disney vacation even if it's fake.
I love to go on the Disney website and plan full vacations, book resort rooms, set up meal plans, add flights. Then exit the websit. I do this often because it is great to dream and imagine whet your next trip will be like as well as being informative of prices for your next actual vacataion.
Following Disney blogs
Keeping up the things that go on in the parks are a pivotable part of curing the PDD. This in a sense makes you feel like you are still there. You still get that feeling that you belong there, and you're still a part of it.
Working at the Disney store
This is the best way in my opinion, you are still a cast member you still get a main gate and you get a inside look at all things disney. Working at the disney store was the best thing for me.I was able to bring up my Disney obsession in a environment where I wouldn’t be judged !

If you’re like me you have PDD As well. It’s ok we will get through this together. We just have to ride the wave until our next vacations Thanks for reading this post ! I would love to hear in the comments some things you do to cure your post Disney depression ! See ya real soon.