My mother asked me why have you always wanted to do these things but never done it?I had to reflect and thinks to myself wow she’s right there are so many things I’ve wanted to do but never done it. At that moment I made up my mind that I was going to start doing the things I have always wanted to do. As a woman we want girly pretty things but somewhere down the line the world tricks us into believing we don't deserve those things or cant have them because we are regular people. But I am here to tell you why you deserve luxury and how to add luxury into your life.
You work five days week to have two days off to prepare you to work five days again, if you’re lucky you travel once twice a year. That cant be your reality you need to add the luxury to your life that you desire. This includes incorporating self care, workouts, journaling and treating yourself. Your body will literally tell you what it needs but, you can start with small things like: Wear perfume daily As you get older you should begin to invest in actual perfumes, buy that fragrance you have had your eyes on and stop using body mist. The actual perfume last longer and will bring you joy throughout the day. You feel good when you look and smell good almost like you can conquer the world. Also the fact of the matter is perfume is expensive and you only wear to on special occasions, you get your moneys with by wearing it more often. Wear pajamas. Sleeping pretty and waking up pretty makes me feel like I'm the main character in a coming of age film. Jackie Aina recently said she threw away all of her mix match clothes and brought everything that matches. Due to the pandemic we spend most of our time at home so why not maximize that time at home to still feel pretty for an extra boost of happiness. Have separate clothing for the day and night time and actually get dressed for the day even you don't leave your house. Get a skin care routine Having a skin care routine is so basic yet so essential. Whether your routine is Drug store or high end you use what works for you and you stick to it. Due to the pandemic Maskne its a thing and having a consistent skin care routine can drastically decrease maskne. you have to take care of your skin so that you age gracefully, As you begin to age you have to get a new skin care routine that targets different areas . I highly suggest teaming up with an esthetician to reach your skin care goals and concerns. Read more Reading is a great way to escape reality by losing yourself into a great book. I was the kid in high school who use to read so many books at least 20 a year, in my adult years I didn’t read as much but as of r. For me reading is a great way to get to know new characters after you have binge watched everything in Netflix already . Bonus points if you read something in the self help genre. Try something you have always wanted to try Try to do something you have always wanted to whether its something so simple like a recipe , or trying that restaurant you always try. If it's a more longer, make a plan start acting on it so you can do it. You should be maximizing life , you shouldn’t be spending time wanting to do things instead of doing them. Try a new hair color take a different route while youre driving life is so full of opportunities but I'm afraid you miss them by not switching it up and trying new things . By doing these small things you will add a little more luxury to your life, burnout can happen but by keeping a spark of excitement in your life you can prevent it. I struggle with treating myself often but , you should not feel bad about taking care of yourself ever. Work on treating yourself good ,work on being kinder to yourself , work on loving yourself. Self care is not Selfish.
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